Bereavement, grief,
and recovery
(letting go, but remembering)
• Links to help on bereavement, grief and recovery
• Selections from DYING about Grief and Recovery
alt.support.grief (online support group for those who are grieving)
Ambiguous loss (Kathleen Gilbert, material for a class discussion)
American 911 (a tribute site to those who lost their life on September 11, 2001)
A place to honor grief (to post memorials and an account of your grief and healing)
Bereaved Single Mothers Forum (for single parents who have miscarried or lost a newborn)
Bereaved families of Ontario (useful links)
Bereavement rituals (ADEC newsletter, October 2005)
Booklist prepared by Shirley Rossa and the End-of-Life Care Partnership
Children and the Death of a Pet, by Harold Cohen (Psych Central)
Compassionate Friends (for help grieving the death of a child of any age)
Crisis, Grief and Healing (especially for men and fathers -- read Tom Golden's columns)
Complicated grief (National Cancer Institute)
Disenfranchised grief (toward end of Kathleen Gilbert's material on ambiguous loss)
David Brooks, A Partnership of Minds
Dougy Center (national center for grieving children and families)
15 Myths about Pet Loss (Psych Central)
Grandparents' grief--who is listening? by Mary Lou Reed (ADEC)
Grief and children (resources for and about them, American Hospice Foundation)
Grief and loss following trauma and disasters (Caring Connections)
Grief at work (articles on grief, and the costs of unresolved grief, in the workplace)
GriefNet (e-mail support groups and general help with loss and bereavement)
Grieving a loss (Caring Connections)
Grieving center for children, teens, and families
Healing with EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), by Tom Golden
Helping the grieving child in school, by Linda Goldman (Healing Magazine)
Life After Tim, by Janet Burroway
(St. Petersburg Times), in which Burroway describes what she learned about grieving after her son Tim Eysselinck, a former Ranger and Army captain, committed suicide after finishing work in Iraq
M.E.N.D. (Mommies enduring neonatal death), Christian support for families whose babies have died
KidsPeace (helping kids in crisis)
Psych Central articles on grief and lossSibling grief (ADEC Forum, January 2006)
What is complicated grief? (www.childrensgrief.net)
Through a Glass Darkly, Miriam Greenspan On Moving from Grief to Gratitude (Barbara Platek, The Sun)
When your baby is stillborn (a site that answers questions and educates)
Working through grief (useful articles, American Hospice Foundation)
Selections from DYING
about Grief and Recovery
There are many, many more in the book, of course.
"For two years . . . I was just as crazy as you can be and still be at large. I didn't have any really normal minutes during those two years. It wasn't just grief. It was total confusion. I was nutty, and that's the truth. How did I come out of it? I don't know, because I didn't know when I was in it that I was in it."
~ Helen Hayes, the actress, on the death of her husband Charles MacArthur
And time remembered is grief forgotten,
And frosts are slain and flowers begotten,
And in green underwood and cover
Blossom by blossom the spring begins.
~ Algernon Charles Swinburne
You can't prevent birds of sorrow flying over your head--but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair.
~ Chinese proverb
I measure every Grief I meet
With narrow, probing Eyes--
I wonder if it weighs like Mine--
Or has an easier size.
~ Emily Dickinson
Grief can be the garden of compassion.
~ Jelaluddin Rumi