Recommended Reading
Books on loss and grief
Albom, Mitch. Tuesdays with Morrie
Bernstein, Judith R. When The Bough Breaks: Forever After the Death of a Son or Daughter (Paperback)
Bolton, Iris. My Son...My Son: A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss, or Suicide
Boss, Pauline. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief (about the sense of "frozen grief" that can occur when a loved one is perceived as physically absent but mentally present (because of desertion, divorce, or abduction, or because missing in actions) or physically present but mentally or psychologically absent (because of dementia, mental illness, or other forms of mental or emotional loss or injury).
Braestrup, Kate. Here If You Need Me: A True Story
Byock, Ira. Dying Well
Caine, Lynn. Being a Widow
Callanan, Maggie, and Patricia Kelley. Final Gifts: Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs, and Communications of the Dying
Davis, Deborah L. Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby
Didion, Joan. The Year of Magical Thinking
Edelman, Hope. Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss
Evans, Dale and Roy Rogers. Angel Unaware: A Touching Story of Love and Loss
Fine, Carla. No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One
Grollman, Earl A. Living When A Loved One Has Died
Gunther, John J. Death Be Not Proud (a young son's death from brain cancer)
Harris, Mark. Grave Matters: A Journey Through the Modern Funeral Industry to a Natural Way of Burial (why eco-friendly burials make sense)
Hickman, Martha W. Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations For Working Through Grief
Kowalski, Gary. Goodbye, Friend: Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Pet
Kushner, Harold S. When Bad Things Happen to Good People
Levin, Mark R. Rescuing Sprite: A Dog Lover's Story of Joy and Anguish
Lewis, C.S. A Grief Observed
McNees, Pat, ed. Dying: A Book of Comfort. Gems of comfort, healing words on loss and grief.
McWilliams, Peter, Harold H. Bloomfield, and Melba Colgrove. How to Survive the Loss of a Love.
Mitchell, Ellen, Carol Barkin, Audrey Cohen, and Lorenza Colletti (nine mothers). Beyond Tears: Living After Losing a Child
Myers, Edward. When Parents Die: A Guide for Adults
Nuland, Sherwin B. How We Die: Reflections on Life's Final Chapter (superb explanations of the actual physical process of dying and good on why and when to stop trying to rescue the terminally ill and to let them die peacefully and in less pain and discomfort)
Rando, Theresa A. How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies
Rinpoche, Sogyal. The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying
Sittser, Jerry L. A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss (about the transformative grace that can come even in the face of catastrophic loss)
Staudacher, Carol. A Time to Grieve: Meditations for Healing After the Death of a Loved One
Viorst, Judith. Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Grow
Bibliography on Grief in a family context (bibliographer for clinicians and scholars), by Dr. Kathleen R. Gilbert, Indiana University)
Practical resources on grief, including links to useful information (scroll down for Dr. Gilbert's reading list)
Books and audio for spiritual journeys, recommended by the Brussats (Spirituality and Practice)
