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• How putting events into a story may aid the healing process • Stories, healing, and self-understanding (a booklist) • Memoirs of illness, crisis, disability, differentness, and survival • Narrative medicine and medical narrative • Organizations that assist artists with disabilities • Adventure in Chinatown by Susie Silook • Alzheimer's: Mementos help preserve memories (Mayo Clinic staff) • Art for Recovery (UCSF) • Auntie's Awakening (Tamara Jones story in Washington Post about how the pretzel queen's personal awakening led her to start Seven Women, Seven Weeks, Seven Stories) • Bandaides and Blackboards (stories by kids and teens about growing up with medical problems--so you know how they coped) • The Beneficial Effects of Life Story and Legacy Activities by Pat McNees (Journal of Geriatric Care Management, Spring 2009). Get PDF file of journal article here. • Center for Digital Storytelling, a California-based community arts organization rooted in the craft of personal storytelling, with an emphasis on first-person narrative, meaningful workshop processes, and participatory production methods. Newsletter focuses on five core area: Stories of Health, Silence Speaks (stories to fight gender-based violence), Witness Tree (stories of place and environmental change),Immigrant Voices, and Women, Girls, and Leadership. • Compelling Stories, if Not Literature (Abigail Zuger, MD, NYTimes, on the nature, benefits, uses, limits, and appeal of personal health-or illness-related memoirs, including tales of survival) • Creating a story of the self (an excerpt from Storycatcher, by Christina Baldwin) • Culturally Appropriate Storytelling to Improve Blood Pressure: A Randomized Trial (Annals of Internal Medicine 2011;154:77-84) • Dignity Therapy. For the Dying, A Chance to Rewrite Life (Alix Spiegel, Morning Edition, NPR 9-12-11). Listen or read transcript. • Dignity therapy: a novel psychotherapeutic intervention for patients near the end of life (abstract of story in Journal of Clinical Oncology) • A Facebook story: A mother's joy and a family's sorrow<. Ian Shapira, Washington Post, has edited and annotated Shana Greatman Swers Facebook page to tell her story from pre-baby date nights to a medical odyssey that turned the ecstasy of childbirth into a struggle for life. • Friedell, Morris, writing My Alzheimer's Struggle, written in the early stages of Alzheimer's. Friedell is prominently featured in The Forgetting, David Shenk's fine book about Alzheimer's. • From Generation to Generation(Dara Kahn's story about Pat McNees's life story writing classes), Bnai Brith Magazine Fall 2010 • Future Elder Caregivers Should Learn Life Histories. The social work and history departments at the University of South Florida designed a project to introduce the concept of "person-centered care": Working with a class of 22 undergraduates, 23 participants from a residential facility for seniors shared their life stories in various ways (talking, creating a scrapbook, being videotaped for an oral history, etc.). • Gratitude, the "forgotten factor" in happiness research. Highlights from the Research Project on Gratitude and Thankfulness (Robert A. Emmons and Michael E. McCullough, Fall 2003). PDF file • The Honor Page (Tom Golden's website, where those bereaved can honor Children's Deaths, Parents' Deaths, Loved Ones' Deaths, or post a link to a memorial) • How to Write a Memoir: Be yourself, speak freely, and think small, writes William Zinsser (American Scholar, Spring 2006) • The Implications of plot lines in narrative and memoir. Victoria Costello's essay on storytelling approaches to illness narratives (Nieman StoryBoard 7-11-11). Costello (the author of A Lethal Inheritance: A Mother Uncovers the Science Behind Three Generations of Mental Illness ) writes about illness narrative as an interactive experience, and about three common plotlines: the restitution narrative, the chaos narrative, and the quest narrative. • Mrs. Brown's Beauty (see the artwork, read the bio) • Narrative and Healing (LitSite, Alaska, rich material on the therapeutic properties of writing and storytelling, with examples of how people of all ages face life's challenges through the art of telling their stories) • Ongoing Psychological Growth with Aging: Autobiography and The Summing Up Phase by Gene D. Cohen. International Reminiscence and Life Review Conference 2007: Selected Conference Papers and Proceedings (November 15-16, 2007, San Francisco, CA), pp 33-39. Available free online or download here. • Our stories, ourselves (Sadie F. Dingfelder, Monitor on Psychology, American Psychological Association Jan 2011). The tales we tell hold powerful sway over our memories, behaviors and even identities, according to research from the burgeoning field of narrative psychology. • Secrets to a Successful Interview (Valerie Holladay, Ancestry Magazine) • Questions we should all ask Mom (Lisa Belkin, New York Times 5-6-09) • Stories and healing by Arthur Frank • Stories in Medicine: Doctors-in-Training Record a Different Type of Patient History (Margot Adler, NPR, 10-28-03) • Stories of healing and transformation (The Healing Bridge) • StoryCorps • The Tangled Neuron: A Layperson Reports on Memory Loss, Alzheimer's, and Dementia (excellent links to helpful material and sites) • Telling the Illness Story (Sharon Kilty • Telling your own (or someone else's) life story • Using stories for growing and healing by Christiane Brems • Veterans History Project • Welcome to Pine Point, an interactive documentary. Click on Welcome to Pine Point. Scroll toward bottom, click on Visit Website. (Or start here at Broadhead and click on Welcome to Pine Point.) Savor. "It was the last truly iconic era. "The last time we more or less went through the motions of change together, everyone excited by the same things, at the same time. "I always found this comforting. We were all in the same boat - or at least swimming nearby. Now, we're all in our own little boats, in our own little oceans. It seems so much harder to be collectively surprised, exhilarated." • What We Can Learn from a Biography of Helen Keller's Teacher (Kim E. Nielsen, HNN, on Anne Sullivan Macy) • When Patients Share Their Stories, Health May Improve (Pauline W. Chen, MD, NY Times 2-10-11). Join a conversation about the article at Healing Through Storytelling Tara Parker-Pope, Well column, NY Times, 2-10-11). One contributor recommended Gratitude, a GlassHospital blog story about the book 365 Thank Yous: The Year a Simple Act of Daily Gratitude Changed My Life by John Kralik. • The Why of Memoir Writing (Martha Jewett's Blog, Write Your Memoir) • Why writers tweet about death, illness, rape (Mallary Jean Tenore, Poynter, 12-27-11) • Why write personal narratives? A doctor's experience, by Julie Connelly, MD (LitSite Alaska) • Why write personal narratives? A doctor's experience, by Julie Connelly, MD (LitSite Alaska) • World War I diary as memorial (U.S. Marine Henry K. Kindig) • The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics by Arthur W. Frank Good interview questions for the family: • 50 Questions for Family History Interviews: What to Ask the Relatives Kimberly Powell, About.com • Great Questions List (StoryCorps) • Guide for Interviewing family Members (from Virginia Allee, A Family History Questionnaire) • Oral history interview questions and topics (JewishGen) • Questions We Should All Ask Mom (Lisa Belkin, Mother Lode, NY Times Adventures in Parenthood blog) • Script for Video or Audio Interviews with Family Members (RootsWeb, genealogy oriented) • 20 Questions to Ask the Important Women in Your Life (Jewish Women's Archive)
Partially sighted readers who want to listen to a title in audio should contact the National Library Service (NLS), which is part of the Library of Congress, or their state Library for the Blind. • Alden, Paulette Bates. Crossing the Moon: A Journey Through Infertility. • Anderson, Karen. The Spiral Staircase: My Climb Out of Darkness. Anderson's memoir of leaving the life of a Roman Catholic nun in 1969 to join the secular world, "a stunningly poignant account about the nature of spiritual growth" (complicated by years suffering from undiagnosed temporal lobe epilepsy, which she does not dwell on). • Angelou, Maya. I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings (childhood memories of growing up black when prejudice was intense) • Ansay, A. Manette. Limbo: A Memoir (an undiagnosed muscle disorder cuts short her career as a concert pianist) • Ascher, Barbara Lazear. Landscape Without Gravity (about her brother's death from AIDS). • Barron, Judy and Sean. There’s a Boy in Here (life with autism, from both mother’s and son’s viewpoint) • Bauby, Jean-Dominique. The Diving Bell and the Butterfly: A Memoir of Life in Death (immobilized by a stroke, the narrator discovers the life of the unfettered imagination). Also a major movie. • Beauvoir, Simone de. A Very Easy Death (about the death of her mother) • Bernstein,Jane. Loving Rachel (about life with a blind daughter) • Black, Kathryn. In the Shadow of Polio: A Personal and Social History (a memoir of Black's childhood experience of a mother in an iron lung, wrapped in the larger story of the search for a cure) • Bragg, Bernard. Lessons in Laughter: The Autobiography of a Deaf Actor • Breslin, Jimmy. I Want to Thank My Brain for Remembering Me (on surviving a brain aneurysm). • Brodkey, Harold. This Wild Darkness: The Story of My Death (the story of his confrontation with AIDS) • Brookes, Tim. Catching My Breath: An Asthmatic Explores His Illness • Broyard, Anatole. Intoxicated by My Illness (critical illness, in his case from cancer, as a spiritual journey) • Burroughs, Augusten. Running with Scissors: A Memoir (the amusing, bizarre story of the author's life from 13 to 16, when his mentally ill mother has him move in with her eccentric psychiatrist) and A Wolf at the Table: A Memoir of My Father (the more sober account of his childhood attempts to elicit warmth from his cruel and unfeeling, alcoholic father). The broad details of his story are at least partly corroborated in his brother's memoir, Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's. • Casey, Nell, ed. Unholy Ghost: Writers on Depression • Casey, Nell, ed. An Uncertain Inheritance: Writers on Caring for Family (and some writers on being cared for). A wonderful book, highly recommended for caregivers. • Cohen, Richard M. Blindsided: Lifting a Life Above Illness, a Reluctant Memoir (living with multiple sclerosis and later colon cancer, and how his illness affected his wife, Meredith Vieira, and their three children) • Cousins, Norman. Anatomy of an Illness as Perceived by the Patient (a classic take on how attitude, and especially laughter, affects health outcomes) • DasGupta, Sayantani and Marsha Hurst, eds. Stories of Illness and Healing: Women Write Their Bodies • DeBaggio, Thomas. Losing My Mind: An Intimate Look at Life with Alzheimer’s (the early memories and the daily struggle of a man coming to terms with a progressively debilitating illness) • DeVita, Elizabeth. The Empty Room: Surviving the loss of a brother or sister at any age (partly a memoir of surviving the loss of her brother Teddy to aplastic anemia) • Dew, Robert Forman. The Family Heart: A Memoir of When Our Son Came Out • Dubus, Andre. Meditations from a Movable Chair and the earlier collection of essays Broken Vessels (both written after a 1986 highway accident left him largely confined to a wheelchair, and only some essays deal with his response to the accident and his view of life from a wheelchair) • Estess, Jenifer. Tales from the Bed: A Memoir. (Estess and her sisters founded Project A.L.S. after she contracted the fatal neuromuscular disease.) • Finger, Anne. Past Due: A Story of Disability, Pregnancy, and Birth • Fishman, Steve. A Bomb in the Brain: A Heroic Tale of Science, Surgery, and Survival (about surviving an aneurysm) • Frank, Arthur W. At the Will of the Body: Reflections on Illness (explores what illness can teach us about life, drawing on his experience having a heart attack and cancer) • Franzen, Jonathon, My Father's Brain (abstract of New Yorker story about his father and Alzheimer's disease, September 10, 2001) • Fries, Kenny, Body, Remember (born with incompletely formed legs, a congenital birth defect, Fries explores what it's like to be different) • Funderburg, Lise. Pig Candy: Taking My Father South, Taking My Father Home (a compelling and beautifully written memoir by a grown daughter—a white-looking mixed-race girl raised in an integrated Philadelphia neighborhood—who gets to know her dying father in a string of pilgrimages to his boyhood hometown in rural Georgia) • Galli, Richard. Rescuing Jeffrey (an account of the gut-wrenching decisions Jeffrey’s parents face in the ten days after an accident leaves him paralyzed from the neck down) • Gilbert, Sandra. Wrongful Death: A Medical Tragedy (about the death of her husband after entering the hospital for routine prostate surgery) • Gordon, Barbara. I’m Dancing as Fast as I Can (on addiction to prescription drugs) • Gordon, Mary. Circling My Mother (Gordon's memoir of her Irish Catholic mother, deformed by polio, eventually suffering dementia—and of their complex mother-daughter relationship) • Grandin, Temple. Thinking in Pictures (an adult with autism explains how it feels to her, and how she works as an expert in her field). Also of interest Animals in Translation: Using the Mysteries of Autism to Decode Animal Behavior • Grealy, Lucy. Autobiography of a Face (about growing up with Ewing's sarcoma, a cancer that severely disfigured her face) • Greenberg, Michael. Hurry Down Sunshine (memoir of his daughter's first manic episode, at 15, and how her bipolar disorder affects the family) • Greene, Valerie. Conquering Stroke: How I Fought My Way Back and How You Can Too • Haddon, Mark. The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time (a work of fiction, not memoir, but it conveys insights from author's work with autistic children) • Hammer, Signe. By Her Own Hand: Memoirs of a Suicide's Daughter • Handler, Evan. Time on Fire: My Comedy of Terrors (recounting with grim humor his battle with leukemia and his hellish journey through the land of the sick) • Havemann, Joe. A Life Shaken:My Encounter with Parkinson's Disease • Hill, Susan. Family (about the death of a premature child) • Hillenbrand, Laura. A Sudden Illness—How My Life Changed (from The New Yorker--The impact of chronic fatigue syndrome, or CFS, on the author of the bestselling book, Seabiscuit) • Hockenberry, John. Moving Violations: Moving Violations: War Zones, Wheelchairs, and Declarations of Independence • Hoffman,Richard. Half the House (about child abuse) • Holzemer, Liz. Curveball: When Life Throws You a Brain Tumor (in her case, a baseball-sized meningioma--and remember, a brain tumor is different from brain cancer) • Hood, Ann. Do Not Go Gentle: The Search for Miracles in a Cynical Time (her search for a miraculous cure for her father's inoperable lung cancer) • Hull, John. Touching the Rock: An Experience of Blindness (from sight problems at 13, gradually becoming blind) • Israeloff, Roberta. In Confidence: Four Years of Therapy • Jamison, Kay Redfield. An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness. A classic memoir about living with manic depression (including its positive aspects). • Jezer, Marty. Stuttering: A Life Bound Up in Words. See Randy Holhut's obit for Jezer and Saying Goodbye to Marty Jezer (Joyce Marcel, Common Dreams) • Johnson, Fenton. Geography of the Heart (about the death of a gay partner) • Kamenentz, Rodger. Terra Infirma (a searing recollection of his mother's life and her death from cancer, his mother "yo-yoing between smothering affection and a fierce anger") • Karr, Mary. The Liar's Club (about growing up with a mentally ill mother in a dysfunctional family) • Kaysen,Susanna. Girl, Interrupted (a young girl's experiences with mental illness) • Kincaid, Jamaica. My Brother (account of her younger brother's death from AIDS) • Kingsley, Jason, and Mitchell Levitz. Count Us In: Growing Up with Down Syndrome • Kleege, Georgina. Sight Unseen (marginally sighted and legally blind at 11 from macular degeneration, Kleege explores the meaning and implications of blindness and sightedness, reminding us that only a fraction of blind people see nothing at all) • Kupfer, Fern. Before and After Zachariah (about a brain-damaged child) • Kusz, Natalie. Road Song (growing up in Alaska, being mauled by a sled-dog, undergoing reconstructive surgery) • Kuusisto, Stephen. Planet of the Blind (blind in one eye and nearly blind in the other, at his mother’s urging he feigns sightedness until coming to terms with his condition) and Eavesdropping: A Memoir of Blindness and Listening (in this sequel to Planet of the Blind, the author learns to live by ear) • Lachenmeyer, Nathaniel. The Outsider: A Journey into My Father's Struggle with Madness (in which the author tries to reconstruct his father's downward spiral from a promising career as a sociology professor to his death as a schizophrenic vagrant, eluding police) • Lang, Jim. Learning Sickness: A Year with Crohn's Disease • Latus, Janine. If I Am Missing or Dead: A Sister's Story of Love, Murder, and Liberation • Lear, Martha Weinman. Heart-Sounds: The Story of Love and Loss (heart disease) • Lewis, Mindy. Life Inside (diagnosed as schizophrenic at 15, kept in a psychiatric hospital till 18, recovering for decades, believing she was never schizophrenic) • Lord, Audre. The Cancer Journals (explores her breast cancer and mastectomy) • Madoff, Roger. Leukemia for Chickens • Mairs, Nancy. Waist-High in the World: A Life Among the Nondisabled (wheelchair-bound from advancing multiple sclerosis, she offers "a Baedeker for a country to which no one travels willingly"). Check out also Carnal Acts , and Remembering the Bone House • Maurice, Catherine. Let Me Hear Your Voice: A Family's Triumph Over Autism • McDonnell, Jane Taylor. News from the Border: A Mother's Memoir of Her Autistic Son • McKee, Steve. My Father’s Heart: A Son’s Journey (a tender memoir about suburban life in York, PA and Buffalo, NY, in the 1960s -- in every sense a “family history,” shedding light on heart disease, especially as inherited in families). Check out Steve McKee’s blog , too. • McLean, Richard. Recovered, Not Cured: A Journey Through Schizophrenia (a brief, readable memoir by a gay Australian artist whose drawings vividly illustrate the story he tells about his life and mind with schizophrenia) • Monette, Paul. Borrowed Time, Becoming a Man, and Last Watch of the Night (a gay man battles AIDS) • Morrison, Blake. When Did You Last See Your Father?: A Son's Memoir of Love and Loss • Neugeboren, Jay. Imagining Robert: My Brother, Madness, and Survival: A Memoir (his brother's 30-year struggle with mental illness) • Neugeboren, Jay. Open Heart: A Patient's Story of Life-Saving Medicine and Life-Giving Friendship • Nyala, Hannah. Point Last Seen (fleeing an abusive marriage) • Olson, Rosanne. This Is Who I Am: Our Beauty in All Our Shapes and Sizes (photos of women with all kinds of bodies) • Park, Clara Claiborne. The Siege:A Family's Journey Into the World of an Autistic Child The First Eight Years of an Autistic Child's Life (by the mother) • Patchett, Ann. Truth and Beauty: A Friendship (about her strange relationship with Lucy Grealy) • Pelzer, David J. A Child Called “It”: One Child’s Courage to Survive (a memoir based on one of the worst recorded cases of child abuse in California history, involving an abusive mother and an alcoholic father), the first in an inspirational trilogy, followed by The Lost Boy: A Foster Child’s Search for the Love of a Family and A Man Named Dave: A Story of Triumph and Forgiveness • Phillips, Jane. The Magic Daughter: A Memoir of Living with Multiple Personality Disorder • Price, Reynolds. A Whole New Life: An Illness and a Healing (spine cancer makes him paraplegic, but liberates his imagination) • Ratushinskaya, Irina. Grey Is the Color of Hope (remembering four years in a Siberian labor camp) • Rhett, Kathryn, ed. Survival Stories: Memoirs of Crisis • Rice, Rebecca. A Time to Mourn: One Woman's Journey Through Widowhood • Richmond, Lewis. Healing Lazarus: A Buddhist’s Journey from Near Death to New Life (viral encephalitis sends him into coma, and in recovery he experiences an acute neuropsychiatric complication from a therapeutic drug) • Robinson, Jill. Past Forgetting: My Memory Lost and Found (a compelling account of severe memory loss as the result of a seizure, by a fine novelist who grew up in Hollywood , as daughter of writer and film executive Dore Schary) • Robison, John Elder. Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger’s (the well-told story of life as a technologically gifted savant with high-functioning autism, with the added twist of an unusual perspective on his brother, who, as Augusten Burroughs, wrote Running with Scissors--apparently the nutty family psychiatrist was no exaggeration). Also by John Elder: Be Different: Adventures of a Free-Range Aspergian with Practical Advice for Aspergians, Misfits, Families & Teachers • Roth, Philip. Patrimony (about a father's illness and about the father-son relationship) • Rothenberg, Laura. Breathing for a Living (making the most of life with cystic fibrosis that takes her life at 22) • Saks, Elyn. The Center Cannot Hold: My Journey Through Madness (a fascinating memoir of the internal chaos and external unfairness that have made a life with schizophrenia so difficult for this professor of law and psychiatry, and of the talk therapy—indeed, psychoanalysis—she felt was as important as medication in helping her live a high-functioning life as a professor of law and psychiatry) • Sarton, May. After the Stroke (the poet’s journal about recovering from a mild stroke when she is in her seventies) • Scheff, David. Beautiful Boy: A Father's Journey Through His Son's Addiction (chronicling a precocious teenager's spiral downward from abuse of mind- and mood-altering drugs to meth addiction) • Scheff, Nic. Tweak: Growing Up on Methamphetamines (the son's story, companion book to Beautiful Boy) • Schreber, Daniel Paul. Memoirs of My Nervous Illness (memoirs of madness, as recalled a century ago during confinement In a German mental asylum) • Serotte, Brenda. The Fortune Teller's Kiss (memoir of contracting polio just before she turned eight, in 1954 -- a funny and heartbreaking account of growing up a Sephardic Jew--a Spanish Jewish family from Turkey-- among Ashkenazi neighbors in the Bronx) • Shawn, Allen. Wish I Could Be There: Notes from a Phobic Life -- part memoir, part explanation, a beautifully written and fascinating account of Shawn's own anxiety and agoraphobia, and a fine summary of what is known about how we form and can learn to manage anxiety and phobias. Shawn is son of the New Yorker editor (who managed his fears by becoming boss and therefore controlling his environment) and brother of Wallace Shawn, the actor. • Shields, David. The Thing About Life Is That One Day You'll Be Dead (personal history melds with riveting biological info about the body at every stage of life — an "autobiography of the body") • Shreve, Susan Richards. Warm Springs: Traces of a Childhood at FDR's Polio Haven (an "indelible portrait of the psychic fallout of childhood illness"). • Shulman, Alix Kates. To Love What Is: A Marriage Transformed (love story of a husband and wife facing his traumatic brain injury and her transformation into caregiver) • Sidransky, Ruth. In Silence: Growing Up Hearing in a Deaf World • Sienkiewicz-Mercer, Ruth and Steven B. Kaplan. I Raise My Eyes to Say Yes. (Encephalitis at 5 weeks left Ruth, a healthy baby, paralyzed and unable to speak normally. Diagnosed an imbecile at 5 years, she was eventually institutionalized and severely mistreated at a school for the mentally and physically disabled until a staff turnover brought her help, including a method for communicating.) • Skloot, Floyd. The Night-Side: Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and the Illness Experience (an account of how this mysterious and life-altering illness stuck overnight, dramatically changing Skloot’s life, and how he dealt with it) • Solomon, Andrew. Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression • Spradley, Thomas S. and James P. Deaf Like Me (parents of a child born deaf as the result of an epidemic of German measles, waste years avoiding sign language before learning how to communicate with their child) • Steinem, Gloria. "Ruth's Song, Because She Could Not Sing It," in Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions (about childhood with a mentally ill mother) • Styron, William. Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness (about his struggle with crippling depression) • Sutcliff, Rosemary. Blue Remembered Hills: A Recollection (the memoir of one of Britain’s best-loved historical novelists, crippled and badly disabled from the age of three by Still’s Disease, a form of juvenile arthritis) • Tammet, Daniel. Born on a Blue Day (memoir of a life with synaesthesia and savant syndrome, a rare form of Asperger's syndrome) • Taylor, Jill Bolte. My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey (a story that provides hope for the brain-injured, not just those who have had a stroke, as this young brain scientist did) • Taylor, Nick. A Necessary End (about death of parents) • Vincent, Eleanor. Swimming with Maya: A Mother's Story (how the daughter's fall from a horse ended in organ donations--transforming a mother's grief) • Wakefield, Darcy. I Remember Running: The Year I Got Everything I Ever Wanted-and ALS (another moving memoir of living and dying with ALS--and about her "fast-forward" life, "in which she applies for disability, leaves her job, and plans her own funeral as well as meets and moves in with her true love, buys a house, and gives birth to her first child." • Walker, Lou Ann. A Loss for Words: The Story of Deafness in a Family (what it was like growing up hearing as the oldest child of deaf parents) • Walls, Jeannette. The Glass Castle (growing up in a decidedly eccentric, often homeless, family) • Waxman, Robert and Linda. Losing Jonathan (losing a beloved child to drugs) • Wexler, Alice. Mapping Fate: A Memoir of Family, Risk, and Genetic Research (on Huntington's Disease) • Wiesel, Elie. Night (powerful account of surviving the nightmare world of the Nazi death camps) • Wilensky, Amy S. Passing for Normal (a moving account of life with a long-delayed diagnosis of Tourette’s syndrome and obsessive-compulsive disorder—and an “exploration of the larger themes of difference and the need to belong”) • Willey, Liane Holliday. Pretending to Be Normal: Living with Asperger’s Syndrome (a mother’s account of her own and her daughter’s life with Asperger’s syndrome). • Williams, Donna. Nobody Nowhere: The Extraordinary Autobiography of an Autistic (after 25 years, the daughter of abusive parents begins to emerge from a hallucinatory world—a view of autism totally different from others here) • Williams, Marjorie. The Woman at the Washington Zoo: Writings on Politics, Family, and Fate (the last third is about her losing battle with cancer) • Wittman, Juliet . Breast Cancer Journal: A Century of Petals • Wolff, Geoffrey. The Duke of Deception: Memories of My Father (about his con-man father) • Wolff, Tobias. This Boy's Life (about escaping from his stepfather's abuse). Geoffrey and Tobias are brothers. • Wurtzel, Elizabeth. Prozac Nation: Young and Depressed in America (atypical depression and bouts with drugs) • Young, Joan. Wish by Spirit: A journey of recovery and healing from an autoimmune blood disease Narrative Medicine |
****The Life Report,. First "fascinating and addictive" life stories in response to David Brooks's request on the NY Times Op Ed page (10-27-11): If you are over 70... I’d like you to write a brief report on your life so far, an evaluation of what you did well, of what you did not so well and what you learned along the way." The first life reports were followed by Life Reports II (11-28-11).
The Beneficial Effects of Life Story and Legacy Activities by Pat McNees (Journal of Geriatric Care Management, Spring 2009). Get PDF file of journal article here (61.9KB)
"It's four little words. Tell me a story. And that's all we do....Even the people who wrote the Bible were smart enough to know, tell them a story. The issue was evil in the world. The story was Noah. Now, the Bible knew that."
~ Don Hewitt, creator of television's 60 Minutes, in a documentary on his career "Every time an old person dies, it's like a library burning down."
~ Alex Haley "Frank identifies three basic narratives of illness in restitution, chaos, and quest. Restitution narratives anticipate getting well again and give prominence to the technology of cure. In chaos narratives, illness seems to stretch on forever, with no respite or redeeming insights. Quest narratives are about finding that insight as illness is transformed into a means for the ill person to become someone new."~from amazon review of The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics by Arthur W. Frank
“Engaging in the storytelling process helped to return identity, stability, and hope. It also encouraged mothers to expand their vision. One mother said, ‘You go through all this stuff, [and] you’re just another person with cancer. You turn into cancer, you lose your identity, but, goddamn it, you have a whole story. [Reviewing my life] put it into perspective in a really good way. It gave me a chance to feel cancer has been a hard part of my life—but only a part. I’m not just cancer. I’m this person.’”
~ from Another Morning: Voices of Truth and Hope from Mothers with Cancer by Linda Blachman “Like the wind crying endlessly through the universe, Time carries away the names and the deeds of conquerors and commoners alike. And all that we are, all that remains, is in the memories of those who cared we came this way for a brief moment.”
~ Harlan Ellison, Paladin of the Lost Hour “Illness is the night-side of life, a more onerous citizenship. Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick. Although we all prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged, at least for a spell, to identify ourselves as citizens of that other place.” ~ Susan Sontag, from the preface, Illness As Metaphor "...illness is terrible but, with some luck, it can also be full of wonders. The terrors assault us at once; the wonders take longer to become visible. Stories help us gain some distance from the terrors and learn to perceive the wonders, but storytelling is a skill, and like all skills, it takes practice to be most effective. Stories offer witness to all that is badly wrong and needs to be changed, and stories offer imaginations of a more generous life that can be. In telling all kinds of stories, we find healing." ~ Arthur Frank, Stories and Healing the message of fred clifton i rise up from the dead before you a nimbus of dark light to say that the only mercy is memory, to say that the only hell is regret. ~Lucille Clifton "Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations." ~ Faith Baldwin "You need only claim the events of your life to make yourself yours. When you truly possess all you have been and done, which may take some time, you are fierce with reality." ~ Florida Scott-Maxwell "This packrat has learned that what the next generation will value most is not what we owned but the evidence of who we were and the tales of how we loved. In the end, it's the family stories that are worth the storage." ~ Ellen Goodman, Boston Globe "The real family legacy is the stories, not the sterling." ~ Andrea Gross "In all of us there is a hunger, marrow deep, to know our heritage - to know who we are and where we came from. Without this enriching knowledge, there is a hollow yearning. No matter what our attainments in life, there is still a vacuum, an emptiness, and the most disquieting loneliness." ~ Alex Haley, Roots |